This woman asks if there's anything in BDSM that doesn't involve pain- columnist points out there's still "bossing a person around, spanking, pinning your partner down, running ice cubes over their nipples, restraints and/or bondage and much more"...to name a few.
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I like a little spanking and tied up wrists. Lately I've been looking at Stockroom.com and there are some really hot photos of bondage. Only problem is I can barely tie my shoes let alone the elaborate rope knots they have.
umm... I have to agree- I think it's about pain: mental or physical
Actually, it's all about MORE PAIN!